The Miserables
Last weekend, I and
three really good friends of varying ages did the proverbial girls’ night out
and saw Les Miserables. It’s been getting great reviews and they were all
right. It really was spectacular. I’ve seen the show before, in fact, this was
my fourth time (I think?) and as usual, I bawled my way through it. This time,
I came prepared —I brought an entire box of tissues, rather than those measly
little 10-packs that only last through the first act.
The Boy thinks Les Mis
is sort of obvious, deliberately pushing tearjerker buttons and sure… but so do
many movies and books and I have to admit, I love a well-done tearjerker every
now and again. And this show does it very well. There’s soaring and stirring
music I love, songs that make me feel something and moments both big and small
to make you lose your breath. And I did, several times. Most had to do with
Ramin Karimloo who plays Jean Valjean. Incredible voice. When he sang Bring Him
Home, I’m pretty sure I didn’t breathe for the whole song. You can hear that,
plus a few other show stoppers on the CBC website.
Les Mis is about the lives
of the downtrodden, the poor and the invisible in our society. It’s about
redemption, solidarity and the fight against oppression. It is almost 3 hours
of making misery visible (and entertaining, odd as it may seem).
After the show, the
theater let out on the streets of Toronto in the Entertainment District, along with
a number of other shows. As audiences spilled out on the sidewalks, all dressed
nicely, with fancy shoes, the good jewelry and full of excitement, carrying
souvenirs and, in the case of the audience from Les Mis, crumpled up, damp
tissues. In a stream, we moved towards the light at the corner and went past
two people sitting on the sidewalk, each with a cup and asking for change. It
was a man and a woman, their hair hadn’t been washed in a while, there were
several missing teeth and the clothes were ratty and dirty. They looked very
much like the actors on stage, except those had gotten there by makeup and
these two got there naturally.
And not one person
walking past them stopped to give them a quarter. There we were, dressed in
nice clothes, going to the subway or our cars to get back to nice, warm homes
after a wonderful evening out that came with the ticket price tag of somewhere
in the neighborhood of $100 each. The disconnect between having paid a lot of
money to see a wonderful show about the downtrodden and the poor, and then 10
minutes later walking past two actual downtrodden and poor people as if they
were invisible was soul jarring.
I went by them, too.
For a few steps. And then I turned around and gave them a lot more than a
quarter.
It’s so easy to
dismiss the homeless and the poor. We like to talk about how we manage to pay
the rent or that they “choose” to be homeless. But what would happen if we lost
our jobs? If we got sick? Many of us are financially overextended and living
paycheque to paycheque. Years ago, when then-Premier Mike Harris dissolved
programs and halfway houses for people with psychiatric disabilities, the
homeless population in my neighborhood increased tenfold. Does that mean they
chose to be homeless? Can you make that choice when you’re sick and your
treatment and support disappears? And even if it were a choice, does that mean
someone deserves to go hungry?
I wish I could give
more money to the home as I encounter when I go grocery shopping. I do when I
can and I don’t care what they use that money for. My money doesn’t come with
conditions, because I get to go home to a nice apartment with running water to
put away the groceries I just bought. And they don’t.
Comments
i've been homeless. thankfully, only for about two weeks. but i entered a 'women's home' where crack was smoked in the bathroom - and that wasn't the worst thing that happened there. i stayed there because it was safer (and warmer) than the streets, but i know people who made other choices.
and seriously, when someone CHOOSES to be homeless, why is that their choice? think about what other choices they passed up before choosing homelessness. because i seriously doubt the choice was between 'safe, happy, healthy home' and 'the streets'.
Years ago I bought some military-ration Meals Ready To Eat, high-protein hermetically sealed servings--earthquake supplies.
But I found myself putting them instead in my car and handing them out to those in need. A few refused; they wanted money to fee their habits, I suppose, but most were happy to have them and I will never forget the joy in one man's face as he ripped them open, one for him, one for his about eight-year-old son, and they dove into their meals right there on the spot.
They should never have had to have been that hungry, but at least I was able to do that much.
The place I bought those from has long since gone out of business. Thank you for jogging the memories--I need to go find more again.